Posted by: misskatelouise | January 12, 2010

Home is Where the Heart is…

Happy New Year to all!

Had a lovely Christmas here at home with the family.  Took a short trip up to Bright to visit Rob Pete and my gorgeous little cousins the weekend before Chrissy to have a pre Xmas celebration with them.  Took the dog up with us which was great.  4 hours in the car on the way up and she was a restless as I’ve ever seen her!  Then for the whole weekend she was harassed by the 1 year old lab pup Tess who has boundless amount of energy and a fascination with Minka’s fluffy ears.  She seems to also be a bit confused as she constantly kept mounting Minka and humping her like there was no tomorrow, haha.  Minka didn’t move the whole way home, and neither did she move for about 3 days after we got home!

Chrismas Day was a nice relaxed affair with all who were in Melbourne from both sides at ours.  Highlight of the meal: Gran’s Parnsip Puff.  It was nice having it at ours and not having to go anywhere for the day.  And it was so very lovely being home.  Still quite dissapointed to have missed the French Christmas, but judging by the weather it may not have happened anyway had I not been able to get out of the UK due to snow.

 

New Year was a very low key one for me this year.  Stinking hot weather and brewing storms saw my enthusiasm to do anything dwindle.  So two of my close girlfriends from uni Cass and Amelia, and I, enjoyed a few quiet drinks and some yummy dinner courtesy of mum, at our place.  We watched the storm role in, wished all a happy new year and were done with 2009.  Quite a nice night in all… never did like the pressure to do something huge on NYE.  This year we were yawning and ready for bed at 10.30, lol, old grandmas that we are.

So have had a lovely few weeks at home since, doing not much.  Dad has had a few weeks off to so it’s been nice going out spending time with my family.  Coffee and breakfast outings, a quick trip to the Mornington Peninsula for some wine tasting and R&R, lazing by the pool and having a splash down the beach.  Needless to say i am feeling much better! Sunshine does wonders.  Although so do drugs, haha.  Still can’t believe how unwell I actually was back when I was in the UK those last few weeks and when I got home. It’s not til now that I am feeling so much better that I realise how crap i actually felt.  I am so so thankful that I was at the Robbins’s at the time and not living in a backpackers as I am sure I would have been a lot worse.  I am ever in debt to that lovely family who looked after me so well. 

Still haven’t started back at work although my bank balance is dwindling so poverty may force me to go back sooner rather than later.  At least I am feeling up to it, and I actually want to go back for something to take my mind off things.  So at this stage looking towards the end of next month. 

In bigger news, I have decided not to return overseas this year.  I know in my last entry I was talking about how I wanted to get my registration after all my efforts, but after careful consideration, I decided it’s not worth it.  The debt it would put me in to get back over there would be an added stress I really don’t need this year.  And even though it was an annoyingly long process to get my registration, it really wouldn’t be the end of the world to go through it again if I ever wanted to (and that’s if I ever wanted to- now I’m not really so sure that the UK is a place I want to live and work).  This year my plan is to get healthy keep as stress free as possible.  I don’t think organizing another trip and going through the backpacking thing again so soon is a smart idea, not when stress plays a big part in flare-ups of this nasty condition.  I have Sally’s wedding to look forward to in September, a job that I can devote myself to and few different New Years Resolutions…

  • Get myself healthy!
  • Start a new healthier lifestyle with the help of a naturapath
  • Get my fitness back up and keep in shape for Sally’s wedding
  • Stop drinking to excess when out
  • Write regularly
  • Learn about wine :-)
  • Read lots and lots
  • Take up playing the Clarinet again
  • Take up Yoga
  • And something small but worth mentioning, sorting out my 1000’s of photos from my trip and doing something with them!!

 

So on that note, here’s to 2010 and all it’s fun and challenges!

x

Posted by: misskatelouise | December 10, 2009

And it all comes crashing down

So after Ireland I arrived in the uk to start the next leg of my adventure… the working bit. Wasn’t going to start until after the New Year and in the mean time I was lucky enough to be put up by a family I know from my previous trip over to the UK. They live in a cute little village called Hamble not far out of Southampton down on the coast. With 2 gorgeous little girls, Grace, 5, and Daisy, 21months, I was occupied while I was there. Things started out well. I was supposed to be attending a course at Bournemouth Uni to sort out my nursing registration which was only a few days with a lot of homework. First day of the course was fine, all peachy. I was feeling quite run down though at this point, my arthritis was playing up after all the backpacking and I things were starting to get on top of me now that I had stopped for a bit. Unfortunately….things never got any better. I ended up with some sort of virus thing, and a bad case conjunctivitis on top of it. Felt really rotten for a few weeks, and ended up not attending the second day at the uni cos I was so ill. Went and saw a doctor and had some blood tests done for my Rheumatologist at home just to keep tabs on the Lupus activity. I actually started to feel a bit better after a few weeks…. momentarily. I was all geared up to attend the last uni day just a few days before Chrissy and then I booked my flight over to spend Xmas with my family in France. Was really excited for that. Brian had told me how much great food and wine would be consumed and I was so so looking forward to it. And then It all returned with a veangence (sp?). All of a sudden I had a constant high fever and couldn’t get out of bed. I was so so miserable. I couldn’t do anything. I attempted to walk up to the shop one night and when i got up there I was standing at the counter and nearly blacked out. Something definately not right. I had myself paranoid that I’d picked up Malaria or something else nasty from overseas. This is the problem with me being a nurse… i get paranoid about things after everything I see. I’d almost diagnosed myself with cancer. Had I been a bit more informed about Lupus and it’s symptoms I would have realised I was starting to have a flare up. But in the past it’s only ever been arthritis and I had sort of never admitted to myself that it was more serious than that. So i never really knew what to look for. I did get my blood test results back and things were not looking good… not surprisingly. I was anaemic and my inflammatory markers were all up as well. I gave it a week. I was feeling really homesick at this point and playing with the idea of going home although only half seriously- I was just getting fed up and frustrated. Then the teary phone call home happened on a Friday and everything came to a head. Mum and Dad were super worried and by the end of the conversation we had decided it was best for me to come home and sort it all out with my own doctors. So the process all began with the travel insurance and stuff and I was on a flight by the next Friday. It was a very snap decision but has absolutely been the right one. I flew home business class so i could be looked after as needed and be more comfortable (thanks Dad) but I wish I could have enjoyed it more! I was so miserable I couldn’t wait to get off the plane. couldn’t enjoy the bar menu or the food. Couldn’t even concentrate enough to watch the movies. Couldn’t sleep. Felt ill from the smell of Thai food by the end I couldn’t even eat anything. Thankfully I had wheelchair assistance through all the airports which was a saviour… imagine trying to navigate through Heathrow and Bangkok the way I was feeling, no way thanks. Unfortunately that meant I missed out on duty free shopping etc but oh well. Wasn’t exactly bothered at that point! So after 22hrs I arrived home, so glad to see my parents and be on the road to sorting all this out. I was absolutley exhausted and feeling so rotten after the flight but it was so good to be home. Haha… didn’t think Mum was going to let go of me at the airport!

So I recovered from the jetlag which wasn’t helping things at all, and went and saw my specialist after having some more tests. Blood count had dropped again and we decided a blood transfusion and a cocktail of drugs should get me feeling better fairly soon. So a mad rush to sort out my health insurance and then I was having a couple of units of blood in amongst with all the cancer patients. Uplifting! Actually…. it was in the end and today I am feeling so much better. I can actually walk around without my heart rate shooting up to 130. I don’t feel giddy. I’m still quite weakened from not having done any physical acticity for about 6 weeks but that will come. I do have bad days but certainly not like I was.

I have deliberated over my plan quite a bit from here. Originally my idea was to come back for a few months, get myself sorted and well and return to the uk to do the work thing. But as it turns out this has been quite a bad flare and I’ll now be on medications and things to manage it long term. I’m not sure it’s the best time to be relocating myself overseas…. and I don’t want it bad enough anymore. I thought I did. I was going to give it a shot… but It’s made me question what it is that I really want. I’m actually really happy being home. I tried to be adventurous but it doesn’t seem to agree with me! I’m too much of a homebody, lol. I’m happy at home. I don’t have to put my life on hold anymore. If i had a particular dream job to walk into over in the UK i’d consider going back… but I don’t. I’d just be floating in any old job in any old place. If I was well it’s be do-able, but I don’t want it badly enough at the moment. So home I shall stay, and now I can focus on my health. I can think about my career. I don’t have to avoid meeting someone cos I’m going away. I know a lot of people that have been faced with this dillema in the end after they leave to go travelling. I think a lot of the time we think it’s what we want and we need to give it a go but fairly soon, many of us realise it’s not something we’re that desperate for. I wish this hadn’t had all happened cos it would have been great to actually give it a go properly with work. It’d be a great time cos I don’t have any commitments here at the moment. And I have quite a few mates over there at the moment too- perfect timing really. But unfortunately, it has and I had to make the decision to come back. But I don’t mind! It’s kind of a weight off the shoulders somehow. Europe will always be there to visit. Actually I will have to go back to sit the last day of the nursing course so i can actually get my registration. There’s no way I’m gonna let that one go after all the damn effort and money that went into the whole process. I want that PIN dammit! Once I have it I have it and I don’t have to worry about it. I can just pay my fees each year and be registered so that if ever I do wanna go back I can, a lot more easily. So the plan will to be to go back over for a few weeks holiday and do the things i didn’t get the chance to do cos I was so ill, and attend the day to get my registration. Prob will be in their summer some time once I have returned to work (hopefully I’ll be able to do this sooner rather than later) and have a bit more money. Then I’ll be back for Sally and Dillon’s Wedding… omg now that is scary! My best friend getting hitched argh.

So signing off for now, wont have much to update for a while now but thought i should update to where I am for now. I guess a lot of people don’t really know what’s been going on, i have explained things to all my close friends and whatnot. And I want to say now too, I have such wonderfully caring and concerned family and friends. The get well wishes and all the phone calls, the flowers, the choccies… it’s nice to know everyone is so concerned. so thank-you everyone for all the get well wishes, it really does brighten things :-)

So for now, ciao all. Will update again when I have something to update about! xo

Posted by: misskatelouise | November 12, 2009

The Kate Reunion in Ireland

So! after leaving the girls in Munich I ventured up on the train to Marburg to meet my good friend from home Kate who has moved to Germany to teach for a while. It’s nice to know i have a good friend so close in Europe. It was great to see her and her host family were very kind to put me up there for a few days. Marburg is a lovely little medieval town not far from Frankfurt with cobble stoned streets and beautiful old buildings. Kate and I had originally talked of going to Poland from here for a few weeks since neither of us had been there before and we both had a keen interest in seeing the country. However after looking into things a bit more Kate informed me it would be difficult to get to from Marburg and not easy to travel around, so we decided in the end on going to Ireland… which was fine by me since it was what i had originally wanted to do during this time anyway before I made plans to catch up with Kate. I had been to Ireland as a kid with the family but it was so long ago now (13 years maybe) that all my memories of the UK have rolled into a bit of a blur. So it was rather exciting to be going back and doing it myself.

so after much debate about costs we decided to hire a car from Dublin Airport and just wing it bascially. We arrived in Dublin to…yep you guessed it, rain! After managing to find our car, it was a relief to dump my 20kg bag which i can tell you I am fast getting sick of carrying, in the boot and take a hold of the steering wheel again. Happy to be designated driver of our little Corsa, we took off….. ah so good to be in a car again….

Until i hit the first exit at the airport and was met with a traffic signal controlled round-a-bout. WTF?! since when do round-a-bouts have traffic lights? doesn’t that defeat the purpose? So after circling it a few times and getting cut off by people and generally bluffing my way through with no idea, we eventually managed to get onto the correct motorway out of town and headed straight for the town of Kilkenny. A busy little Irish town with a lot of pubs (how unusual….) we found our first night’s accomodation no problems and enjoyed a hearty pub meal with a pint of Kilkenny, in Kilkenny. Whilst in town we visited the Castle which was quite cool… and very complete compared to everything else we would see on the trip! With a vast green lawn sprawling out around it and autumn coloured trees dotted aorund the grounds, the big grey castle was quite spectacular. Here we also visited the first of many ruins on our trip, Kell’s Priory, an old monastic site that has absolutely no information posted anywhere, and the only visitors there were us. This was also the first time in years I actually walked through green, green, wet grass! We wandered through the site which had the remains of an old church and the rest was left up to our imaginations. I was quite shocked that such a beautiful place could be left so much to ruin… the grave sites were overgrown and we were allowed to wander over these ruins as we pleased. I thought that such a place would have moe upkeep… but then Kate pointed out, in a country that is so so old and is littered with old sites like this, how do you maintain all of them? How do you decided which sites are the most important? Very true.

And so we ventured on, headed towards Cork. On the way we stopped at (another) monastic site The Rock of Cashel, and a cottage Kate wanted to see, and then we hit the mayhem of Cork, a drivers nightmare of one way roads and peak hour traffic. I was so frustrated by the end of it that by the time we found our hostel we decided to get out of there early in the morning and move on. So we didn’t see Cork at all. The next morning we headed (in the rain) toward Blarney to kiss the Blarney Stone at Blarney Castle (and receive eternal eloqouence aparently). I remember doing it as a kid… and nothing was different the second time around!

Blarney Castle

Blarney Castle

So after creeping through the tiny stairwells of the castle in the rain we set on our way again and ended up in Trallee, a town near the Ring of Kerry and the Dingle Peninsula. The town itself was fairly ordinary, and our attempts to find a cute Irish pub to drink at were met with dissapointment as we again entered another one to feel completley like we were intruding on the locals. This would be a recurring thing on this trip. Maybe we were just choosing the wrong places but we never felt entirely comfortable wherever we went.

Using Trallee as a base for a few nights after finding a very comfortable hostel we decided against driving the Ring of Kerry due to the famously narrow roads (which i hate to imagine after already driving through some ridiculously narrow roads already on the this trip) on which i may be met with oncoming buses (no thank-you). so instead we decided that the Ring of Dingle (western most point of the country) would be just as spectacular… and it certainly was well worth it. After driving over the Connor Pass, the highest pass in Ireland and a most spectacular drive through a barren brown landscape, we were met with the beautiful peninsula of rolling green hills dotted with sheep, that meet the beautiful blue ocean, all against the backdrop of blue skies.

Dingle Peninsula

Dingle Peninsula

This was the moment we realised the benefits having a car, because seeing this countryside would be very difficult without one. We visited the visitors centre for the Blasket Islands which lie off the coast of the peninisula and used to be home to a small community of gaelic people up until the 50’s when the last inhabitants were evacuated… no wonder since the islands were subject to such harsh weather conditions and life was increadibly hard. One has to wonder why anyone would have chosen to live there.

The next day was a similarly beautiful drive along the Burren, a coastline of grey rocky outcrops and cliffs almost moonlike in appearance. We were headed toward the village Doolin and the nearby Cliffs of Moher. Doolin was a small fishing village with a lively pub with traditional music, at which i ate the most beautiful piece of atlantic salmon i have ever tasted. And a few doors down was a home made fudge shop which Kate and I nearly died in. I’m not one for fudge usually but this was something else! The Cliffs of Moher were quite stunning although the time of day we visited wasn’t the greatest for lighting, and i do believe we didn’t see it at it’s most beautiful.

Cliffs of Moher

Cliffs of Moher

Actually Kate and I agreed that as nice as they were, nothing compares to the cliffs of the Great Ocean Road at home. And for me, i didn’t find these cliffs as special as the White Cliffs of Dover which i remember being mesmerised by as a kid. We did attempt to wait around the at the cliffs to see the sunset, but it seemed to be taking an awfully long time to set, and it was dreadfully cold by this point. After deciding the sunset didn’t look like it was going to be all that great, we left. we visited the fudge shop at this point, and then the moment we came out, we saw a brilliant splash of pink and orange across the sky which hadn’t been there before. Typical! so we raced down to the water to take some snaps and watch the wonderful sky turn to night. sunset

From Doolin we didn’t have much of a plan, so we took off north again, deciding to give Galway city a miss. We ended up driving up into the Conemara region at the suggestion of the Lonely Planet… which turned out to be one of my most favourite drives of the trip. Like a few of the other areas we had visited, like the Dingle Peninsula, Conemara is Gaelic speaking, which we had great entertainment in witnessing at a local servo. It has to be one of the funniest languages i have ever heard. It’s easy to forget that they actually speak various forms of Gaelic in many parts of Britain, and when you actually hear it, it’s so intriguing! It literally sounds like nothing else, it’s like jibberish. It certainly adds something to the feel of the country, it’s hard to describe. The landscape in this region was so different to anything we had seen so far, and nothing like i had expected to see in Ireland. Brown barren mountainous landscape with glassy lakes dotted around, and the whole place covered in an eery mist. It was much more like the highlands in Scotland than what we had been seeing in Ireland with the green rolling hills. We stumbled upon Kylemore Abbey which was a stunning grey building set in the hills overlooking a beautiful lake… so very picturesque.

Kylemore Abbey

Kylemore Abbey

We ended up staying in a quiet little town with the dorm to ourselves (again) and set off the next day towards Dublin. I would have like to have spent more time seeing the national park but it was hideous weather and we had a long drive ahead of us.

I had hoped that we would be able to find somewhere nice and picturesque along the way to Dublin to stay at overnight… but I now realise there is a reason the centre of Ireland is not mentioned in the Lonely Planet… there is jack all there! We attempted along the way at various points to find tourist info centres but they were all closed. Trying to find accomodation was a nightmare, and 70Euro for a very ordinary b&b was not a favourable option. Well into the evening we ended up finding ourselves in Slane which was much further than we had intended to get, but the accomodation there was cheap and we got a private room so we stayed for 2 nights. From here we explored the Boyne Valley and the Bru na Boinne monument, a neolithic burial ground created 5000 years ago, predating Stonehenge by 1000 years.

Newgrange

Bru na Boinne (Newgrange)

It is quite an amazing structure, they say that not a drop of water has leaked through since its creation. The only time when the chamber inside the mound is lit up is at the winter solstice each year when the sun’s rays shine straight in through the passage. One has to wonder how all this was created so perfectly 5000 years agon, and how these thousands of stones used to create it were trasported from 30 and 60 miles in opposite directions of the site. It has certainly puzzled modern engineers, a team of which tried to replicate the monument… and failed. Quite an amazing place!

black rockFrom Slane we also visited the seaside village of Blackrock, which I of course had to visit, my hometown in Melbourne being Black Rock. I could see a slight similarity between the two towns, although I’m not sure if this was psychological with me wanting to find similarities rather than there actually being any.

And so we headed on to Dublin to return the car which I had grown quite fond of, and spend a few days in the capital of the country. Kate has a friend in Dublin who we were luck enough to be able to stay with. While we were in the city we went to see the Book of Kells which is an illuminated manuscript containing the 4 Gospels of the New Testament, dated in the 8th century I think, and complete with some amazing artwork and calligraphy. And on a similar theme we visited the Chester Beatty Library which was an amazing collection of manuscripts and artwork collected by Chester Beatty himself, who then donated the collection to the people of Ireland. We saw illuminated copies of the Qu’ran, pieces of papyrus with gospels printed on them dated 150AD, and other amazing artefacts from the far east and asia. Even a quite increadible collection of snuff bottles. Quite increadible that this one man aquired all this himself personally during his lifetime. This is a museum I would definately recommend to anyone visiting Dublin. We also visited the Guiness factory which i am very glad for having a free pass to, as we both found it a total waste of time. You don’t actually see any brewing of the stout beer at all, it’s just a loud, over the top exhibition. Of course we had a pint at the end, which i attempted to finish but just couldn’t. At least i tried! The most exciting part of the factory was seeing Vince Vaughn… and not just a glance from afar. I remember seeing this guy on the escalators and saying to kate “haha, that guy really looks like Vince Vaughn…” then i realised that was because he was was Vince Vaughn! We then somehow got stuck behind their tour group and managed to follow him the whole way through.

vince

Vince Vaughn

I would have loved to got a photo but couldn’t bring myself to hassle him. Ah well…. i got a sneaky pic of him at the bar for proof anyway!

Callum was kind enough to take us on a drive through the Wicklow mountains just out of Dublin one afternoon, where we drove past a farm they used to film at for one of my favourtie movies P.S. I Love You, and visited the famous Johnny Fox pub… where many a many a famous person has visited. Actors, musicians, and politicians including Johnny Howard. Quite a cute lively pub with some great live music and some food that i was salivating at each time the waiters walked past. I would have loved to have eaten there but by the time we got a table and got our food it would have been several hours later. To our amusement we were having a sticky beack at the rooms at the back of the pub (all the rooms walls are covered in weird and wonderful paraphernalia) and there was a single table of people eating dinner in there, which i didn’t take any notice of until Kate started giggling… and we realised it was Vince Vaughn, again. Twice in 2 days, seriously I was starting to think he was stalking me…
hehe.

I wouldn’t say Dublin is the prettiest city or that there is particularly much to do there… but the few things we did see were quite cool. Except the abundance of Australian Ugg brand ugg boots nicely priced at an average of 200Euro =$400. I’m not sure if Europeans just really love our ugg boots and are stupid enough to pay these ridiculous prices for them, or if the recession (particularly bad in Ireland I might add, everything was sooooo expensive) has just hit the old sheepskin slipper in a big way. Either way… Ugg boots are an obsession over here and I for one just do not get it!

So that bought us to the end of our trip through the lovely Ireland and the end of our Kate reunion. It was a great opportunity for me to see a part of the world I vaguely remember seeing as a child… it was quite a strange feeling going to a place having a strange recollection of having been there before. It was really nice to go back and do it myself and being able to properly appreciate it as an adult. Especially the difficulties my parents must have endured of driving the tiny country roads… where the speed signs will say 80 on one side of the road but 100 on the other (what the??), and where there will be a painted “very slow” on the road with a speed sign post of 100 planted right next to it. Not to mentioned the fact that these speed limits of 100 are on tiny, winding, bumpy little laneways with blind corners that terrified me at times. But it’s all a part of the experience hey?! A great few weeks with a good friend was just what I needed before settling in to the coming months of cold wet and dark England. But more on that next time :-)

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